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New manfriend and I have been having this epic battle of the bed for a few weeks now. He claims that I take over the bed and he’s left with a little corner of te world. I say that he is constantly pulling me closer when we sleep(which he totally does!) and its not my fault that he only gives himself a little room.
I suggested that we draw lines and videotape to see who’s really the problem, but he refused.
Probably cause he knows I’d win. :-p
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This guy saved me. And he has no idea.
He was the first boy to make me feel like I was worth something, after my high school sweetheart completely ripped my heart to shreds. He was the person to make me see that I deserved more.
And when another ex beat me down so low and emotionally abused me to the point that I simply just wanted to stop existing, he’s the one that grabbed me and shook me out of that dark place.
And it’s amazing to me, that after 6 years these are two of the only pictures we have together, taken tonight at his birthday party. And they perfectly depict our relationship.
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These are the acoustic waves of a couple saying “I do.”
dear future husband, we’re doing this.
(via sr8olguin)
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So let me get this straight. you wont sleep with me, because you like me “too much” and you don’t want me to feel like you’re pressuring me for sex. We stop seeing each other for unrelated reasons, and the first thing you do is go out and fuck a stripper? And I’m not supposed to be upset or offended by this at all?
Yeah…I’m thinking I dodged that bullet. You’re a freaking idiot.
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Holy hell did I get a lot of private replies to my FwB question. The general consensus from everyone is that it can’t last over 6 months because one or both of you will develop feelings for the other and it’ll turn into a giant mess.
I asked because I’ve been in mine for over 2 years now. We briefly tried to date in between that, but realized we should just stick to what we’re good at(haha). Obviously we take small breaks in between, like when one of us meets someone we want to pursue an actual relationship with, but it’s been pretty steady for 2 years. We used to have some pretty strict rules on how we maintained this relationship, but those have pretty much gone out the window as they’re no longer super necessary to keep the lines from blurring.
My psychology teacher was telling us how these relationships can be both incredibly unhealthy and healthy for a person. Unhealthy because you can subconsciously use the relationship as a way of closing off to other ones, and healthy because it gives the people involved the outlet they may need in a safe environment.
May or may not be using the responses for a paper… So what do you think? Healthy? Unhealthy? Do you even care?
